In life, there are some things that guys should never say to a girl. Your girlfriend should be one of the best things in your life. Spend time with her, buy her flowers and kiss her when she least expect it. When guys look at her, grab her waist and kiss her in front of them, show them that she’s your girl. Treat her like a queen and she’ll be happy. Never make her feel uncomfortable. Be her hero, her inspiration, be the reason she wants to wake up every morning. She’s your girlfriend, start treating her like she deserves to be treated.
Cheating. This is not an “every-guy thing,” you know. Lots of boyfriends are honest, they keep to their promises, and they do not cheat. When it is time for a dating relationship to end, they end it and move on. In other words, they don’t start something with another girl while they are still in a dating relationship. On the other hand, some guys (including the ones more likely to cheat) come at it from the other direction. Guys who cheat on their girlfriends are inconsiderate jerks who need to grow up. If guys cheat, then they are obviously not ready to commit to a relationship. When guys cheat they usually cheat on a great girl who really cares about them for some ugly brainless girl who could care less about them.
2. Flirt with other girls
Don’t flirt with a girl when you don’t really mean anything you say. Don’t text a girl all day long when you’re actually texting more than one girl. Don’t go out on a date with a girl when you’re just taking another girl out the next day.
3. Make promises they can’t keep
Don’t make her promises that you know you aren’t able to keep. Don’t make her believe you care about her when she’s just another girl to you. By doing these things, you get a girl’s hopes up & you give her expectations & because that happens, the disappointment hits her so hard & now she’s emotionally damaged.
4. Say “ I love you” when they don’t mean it
When you’re dating someone you really, really care about, the three little words you want to hear the most are easily these: I love you. Those simple words can change your whole relationship. So it absolutely sucks when the dude says it to you… and then reveals that he was lying. He doesn’t love you. He just said he did. It’s easy to make a silly general statement like, “because all guys are douche bags without emotions,” but the truth is, it’s probably a little more complicated than that.
A lie may take care of the present, but it has no future. A lie will easily get you out of a scrape, and yet, strangely and beautifully, rapture possesses you when you have taken the scrape and left out the lie. It is hard to believe that a man is telling the truth when you know that you would lie if you were in his place. Love is a verb, not a noun. It is active. Love is not just feelings of passion and romance. It is behavior. If a man lies to you, he is behaving badly and unloving toward you. He is disrespecting you and your relationship. The words “I love you” are not enough to make up for that. Don’t kid yourself that they are.
6. Deny things that are true
Sometimes people remain in denial to numb the pain, but numbness is a limbo. Beyond the pain, the truth will set one free. Denial is the worst kind of lie, because it is the lie you tell to yourself. We’re all in denial. We’d barely get through the day if we worried that we or people we love could die today. Life is unpredictable, and denial helps us cope and focus on what we must in order to survive. On the other hand, denial harms us when it causes us to ignore problems for which there are solutions or denies feelings and needs that if dealt with would enhance our lives.
7. Talk to her about their exes
When it comes to a relationship, talking about an ex is like walking directly into a minefield. You just don’t know when one of them is going to blow up in your face. For a girl, hearing another woman’s name (especially an ex) can incite some very violent reactions. Other women just clam up and decide not to talk. Now, men would go mad if that happened. Men shouldn’t talk about their ex in the first place to the woman in front of them because it will only end in trouble. There’s no good way to end a conversation that starts with your ex. You can be certain that it’s going to end with an awkward.. “Soooo, that’s that” or a .. “yeah, so that’s how it ended”.
8. Say shit behind her back
People pretend well. Jealousy sometimes doesn’t live far. So know your circle. At the end of the day, real situations expose fake people, so pay attention. Never say shit behind her back for your own sake.
9. Joke about wanting to break up
The first thing that goes through your girlfriends mind when you say “we need to talk” is “omg, he wants to break up with me”. After the initial panic of “omg, he’s going to break up with me”, she’ll jump into thinking she’ll need to break it off first. So although you mean you just want to talk (not break up) all she will read it is “let’s break up”. So never ever joke about break up.
10. Make excuses
Never make excuses. Your girlfriend doesn’t need it and she won’t believe it. There is a lie in between a promise and many excuses. The habit of constantly making excuses for oneself can have multiple impacts, ranging from laughingly being referred to as undependable to being considered overly defensive and paranoid. You may be strong, forthright and well-respected in all other aspects of your professional, personal and family life, but if you’re always covering up your shortcomings with excuses, some kind of negative reputation is bound to develop.